As much as you love someone, recalling the details of their life at the time of their death is an overwhelming responsibility. For someone close to the person dying, writing an obituary is comforting by remembering the defining moments of an individual's life may bring comfort. Having the obituary already written and on file with your funeral provider, is not as difficult to do as you may think.
What is an obituary?
An obituary can be a very personal look at a life. It need not only be a summation of the public facts, but a glimpse of the uniqueness, when combined with those "facts," created a personality. Written by someone who is close to you, an obituary becomes an intimate view of what made you memorable to others. Written by you, it becomes your personal life's story. One detail that often escapes even the most thorough planner is to write an obituary. Writing an obituary is another thing, that can be taken care of in advance.
How to write an obituary?
Writing an obituary is often helpful when someone close has died or may be dying. An obituary can be as basic as containing only public facts about a person's life like their birth, family tree, their death. One can also include the persons photograph along with the vocational and personal interests he was involved with when alive. Through an obituary one can also relate your thoughts, experiences and memories with them. An obituary also contains a list of immediate survivors like children, grandchildren, spouse or siblings who were closely associated with the deceased. As an obituary also serves as a notification that an individual has passed away, it is best to check with the newspaper services if they have space. Composing the obituary has to be carefully done as it needs to appear few days prior to the memorial service.
It is most important to make the obituary personal by reflecting the “real” person. People who read the obituary should feel a sense of loss or should feel they ought to have known the deceased. We encourage you to go through our sample obituary we have prepared to assist you. Also, you can take assistance from our sample obituary formats for writing an obituary. To help you get started review the sample obituary or you can use our sample obituary format to write an obituary. Think about your life and what would you like most remembered. Then fill out the form, and file with your funeral plans.
J. WAYNE CAMPBELL came to the funeral industry in 2003 after a highly successful career as a full-time National Guardsman, retiring as a full-Colonel. Mr. Campbell is a Stephen Minister, a Presbyterian Deacon and Elder and a Family Support Volunteer for Hospice of Wake County. For more information on cremation and related processes, please visit us at www.cremation.com
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